First off, thanks for the comments in my first post. I appreciate them, and some of the links that I have found while perusing through your respective blogs!
Today will probably be a whole lot, about a bunch of things. I'm in one of those moods.. lol.
First topic of discussion: Strong is the New Skinny (SINS). I ADORE this term. This is how I talk to my clients, and how I perceive myself. While now I have a little excess over my strong, it is my motto, and my training method. At the previous gym I worked at, I got into a very lengthy discussion with a woman (about my own age) one evening. She was waiting for her daughter to finish a yoga class and I was just finishing up my day and leaving the Trainer Office. She looked as though she wanted to ask me a question, so I stopped to chat with her. I didn't get the comment that I expected, but I took it like a big girl.
"You're a personal trainer, how come you are big?"
Yes.. she said that... While it did cross my mind to drop her to the floor right there, I sucked up my pride and defended strong vs "skinny". I know what I look like at 125 lbs. I am waify and my spine is noticeable. It's not nice. I am desperately trying to find some pics so I can put them in my blog, but 2002 was pre-digital! I always seemed to be behind the camera, even at my thinnest! I told her I would rather weigh 10-15 lbs more (so 135-140) and look/feel strong.
This is me, September 2006, at about 138 lbs.... Has to be one of my fave running photos.
She still wasn't getting it. She is/was stuck on that THIN = FIT. So, to make my point, I asked her to point out someone she thought was "fit" in the gym... then get that girl to do a side-by-side plank against me... I may not be "fit" (in her mind) but I can do a 2+ minute straight arm plank....
Being a single and looking girl as well, I often struggle with filling out the body description area of my profile. I always lean towards "athletic" but know that far too many men equate athletic with skinny. Where on earth do they get that from? I mean - look at female cyclists & speedskaters (whom I resemble most build wise). They are strong, powerful and ATHLETIC! But I know that by putting athletic as my body type I am just setting myself up for discussions that I don't want to get into, so I simply put "average" . :( I can't even flaunt my athleticism when looking for a date.
So that is my constant dilemma. Lord knows I have actually had dreams lately that I have been fired from the gym I train in because I am not skinny. Which is a silly, silly idea.
Speaking of work, I had a FANTASTIC work out today. First strength workout in about 5 weeks. Between being super busy and hurting my back a week and a half ago I made myself work out after I had finished my last client today. 3 circuits, 15 reps & 3 sets of each.
1:
Plate press (200 lbs)
Tricep pull down (cable) 25 lbs
Bench step ups
2:
Laying Hamstring curls 30 lbs
Lat Pull down 45 lbs
Good Mornings 20 lb barbell
3:
Smith Squats 90 lbs
Decline chest press 10 lbs
Piston squats
I was "done" when I was finished, but I had a smile on my face and felt awesome. Workouts scheduled for S, T & Th next week. Same legs, mix up the upper body work.
Food, not completely paleo/primal yet, but working on it. I can't afford to clear the fridge and start from fresh right now (February has been a brutally expensive month for me) so I am making do with what I had already. I am pretty much out of bread products, so the last 2 days have been completely bread free. Tonight I did have some rice, but that was due to my workout..... A lot of the other trainers I work with will have some carbs, but only after they have done a work out. So that worked for me today.
Well, if you are still reading, thank you.. my ramblings are done for tonight!
See you in a day or two!
Great post, I love your perspective on SINS, and I think you should change your profile to athletic and not average because, you are athletic and if a man can't see that, he isn't the right guy for you! :) Enjoyed your ramblings, continue the good work, hopefully you will be all Paleo by next month! Have a great weekend!
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with Hannah, it isn't your fault if a guy can't discern athletic from skinny and you should be proud of your athleticism! Trainers should be fit not just skinny, I see a skinny trainer and I think "Oh lord she'd make me do HOURS of cardio and forget about weights" Deadlifts are a must in my book. Great post!
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